GET READY TO CHOOSE YOURSELF
The Turning Community is a sacred online space for single women in their thirties ready to stop feeling "behind" and start thriving on their own timeline
An exclusive membership that transforms how you experience being single in your thirties from feeling pressure and comparison to creating a life you love right now.
Designed to support you to live your life on your terms, that doesn’t only look good on the outside, but feels great on the inside.
A group where we will shed social constructs together, to give you the freedom to be who you really are, without judgement, alongside a community of like-minded women, supporting and encouraging each other along the way.
Society puts pressure on us to have done certain things by the time we reach our thirties.
It's a myth that we all need to adhere to the same timelines.
Cameron Diaz met her husband at 41.
Meghan Markle married Prince Harry at 36 and had her first child at 37.
Oprah didn’t get her first national show until 32.
Salma Hayek got married at 39 and had her daughter at 41.
Vera Wang became a fashion designer at 40.
Jennifer Lopez had twins at 38.
The real problem isn't being single in your thirties, it's trying to navigate this chapter without the right support, tools, and community.
Do you often feel that you are ‘doing life wrong’, just because it doesn't look the same as those around you?
What if this next chapter could be the most extraordinary yet, regardless of what everyone else is doing?
The Turning Community is where single women come to embrace where we're at, learn to love ourselves for who we are and build a life that's fulfilling whilst we work towards our dreams of a future relationship.
Do any of these sound familiar?
You scroll through social media and immediately feel like you're falling behind in life compared to everyone else. Why is every single person on your Instagram getting engaged and or having babies right now?!
You attend another friend's wedding and spend the night avoiding uncomfortable questions about whether you are seeing someone new.
Your family gathering starts with excitement but quickly turns to dread when relatives ask "So, are you seeing anyone special?" and you want to hide in the bathroom until the coast is clear.
You want to plan your future but feel paralyzed by uncertainty about whether you should make decisions based on your current single status or a hypothetical partner that could enter your life at any moment (think knight in shining armour to rescue you from your doom-scrolling/Tinder sofa session)
It's not just about being single. There’s part of it that you love. It’s the not knowing when it will happen from you. The uncertainty of the future. The expectation that life would look different by now.
While everyone else seems to be following the same script, you're left wondering if you missed a page- or if you're in an entirely different book. You love the book- but could you write it differently?
But what if this chapter could be extraordinary, regardless of your relationship status?
Imagine...
Waking up and feeling genuinely excited about your day, without that nagging sense that something's missing because you're single.
Planning your dream solo trip without waiting for "someone to go with" and experiencing the pure freedom of following your own desires.
Attending your friend's wedding and truly celebrating their joy without that overwhelming feeling of "when will it be my turn?" and all of the feelings of guilt that come with it.
Feeling so fulfilled in your daily life that partnership becomes something you want rather than something you need - transforming how you show up in dating.
Confidently responding to your aunt's "Are you seeing anyone?" question without spiralling after.
Approaching dating as something you genuinely want to do, instead of a chore that you do because you are ‘supposed to’
Introducing
The Turning Community
The only membership specifically designed for single women in their thirties who want to go from feeling "behind" and worried about the future to confidently embracing where you’re at right now and working towards the future you desire- all whilst being supported by a community of hundreds of other women on their own paths too.
This isn't just another online group...
It is a supportive community with expert guidance that helps you release societal timeline pressure and create a fulfilling life on your own terms.
Unlike other women's communities or dating programs that only focus on "fixing" your single status, The Turning Community is designed to give you the tools you need to experience both the internal mindset shifts AND external life changes to build your next chapter.
Through monthly expert coaching, curated workshops, coaching resources, and connection with women experiencing the exact same challenges, you'll:
Release the pressure of society's timeline and create your own definition of success
Build meaningful friendships with women who truly understand what you're going through
Create a life so fulfilling that partnership becomes an addition to your happiness, not the source (think the cherry on top of the delicious ice cream sundae)
Stop comparing yourself endlessly to others and own the unique timeline that you are on
Transform how you view dating, from scarcity and anxiety to authentic confidence
Master the art of celebrating others' milestones without feeling left behind
Connect with your true desires, separate from what you've been told to want
I have created the most powerful room to be in as a woman in her thirties.
The week of my 33rd birthday, my four year relationship unexpectedly came to an end the same week that I lost my full-time job.
Life wasn’t exactly working out as I had envisaged, but somewhere deep down, I knew that this was the start of something new. Instead of falling apart, I saw it as an opportunity to transform my life and create a different, even better version.
I intentionally set out to reclaim my thirties and build my next chapter. To do this, I used the coaching concepts that I have learnt and taught over the past eight years, to help create a life that was SO MUCH BETTER than the life I was living before.
On this journey, I felt constantly called to connect with other women who had experienced similar struggles. Women who had also gone through big life transformations in their thirties and who were dedicated to living their own path, instead of conforming to others.
I wanted to be with a group of people who understood me, instead of constantly having to explain myself to my family and friends who were worried about me not being the same as them.
This is why I have created this group, so that we can come together and embrace our status as single, independent women in our thirties. To live as we please and not feel bad about it.
Who I am
Over the past eight years, I have learnt and developed my coaching tools that have enabled me to grow from a lost and confused 29 year old to a confident and empowered 37 year old.
Left a career that I knew wasn’t fulfilling me, that I had wanted to leave for years
Followed my dream to create a fully-booked coaching business that I know is my true calling
Ended a four-year relationship that wasn’t serving me to embrace being single and dating in my mid-thirties
Moved in to my dream apartment to live alone and became fully self-sufficient in every sense of the word
Spent my winters on the beaches of Mexico and Costa Rica, working as a digital nomad
Developed a consistent balanced routine, including daily journaling
Took control of my fertility and froze my eggs at age 35
Met my husband and had our first baby just before my 37th birthday
Full confidence that I am on the right path and I can coach myself through anything that life brings my way
Chosen to live a life that feels right for me, embracing who I am and not being afraid to strive for more instead of settle for less
I have worked with 100s of women in their thirties to help go through huge life transitions and reach their personal goals.
This program is made for you if:
You're feeling the pressure of biological clocks, societal expectations, and your own internal timeline. You want to find peace with where you are while making intentional choices about your future.
You have just gone through, or know that you are on the cusp of, a transformational period in your life. This may be a break-up, a big career transition, moving country or city, or a general shift in how you live your life.
You have already started your journey of self-growth but now you are ready to take what you have learnt and actually see some tangible results from it.
You know you want a relationship and are actively dating, but don't want to put your life on hold while searching.
You are READY to invest in yourself: time, energy and money. You are willing to put in work to show up for yourself.
You are done pretending that you are ok with where you are right now. You don’t want a mediocre life and you don’t want to settle for something less.
You're comfortable being single and enjoy your freedom, but sometimes wonder if you're missing something. You're looking to make the most of this time while staying open to partnership if the right person comes along.
Are you joining us?
What's included in the membership
The Turning Curriculum Details
Self-study video modules teaching a six step Turning framework to turn around your thirties and embrace being single during this time.
1
Turn Out: See the bigger picture
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Release the pressure to “keep up”
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Accept where you are without resistance
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Trust in something bigger than societal timelines
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Turn In: Do the deep inner work
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Identify limiting beliefs and old narratives
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Understand your fears, patterns, and emotional blocks
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Take radical self-responsibility for your healing
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Understand the power of your mind
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Turn (it) Up: Turn the volume up on YOU
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Reclaim your confidence and sense of self
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Explore joy, hobbies, and new ways of expressing who you are
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Be more bold, create a full, magnetic life that reflects you, not who you “should” be
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Create a life where finding your person is the ‘cherry on the top’
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Turn (it) On: Activate your love life (without losing yourself)
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Start dating again (if you’re not) or renew your dating energy
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Show up in dating from a place of self-worth, not fear
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Get clear on what you want and what you’re no longer available for
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Turn (it) Around: Reframe your story in real time
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Shift from “unlucky in love” to “this is my path”
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No more victim mode
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Stop waiting for a relationship to begin your life
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Turn Toward: Choose connection and community
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Let yourself be seen and supported by others on a similar path
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Nurture aligned friendships and emotional intimacy outside of romance
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Heal through shared stories, not silent shame
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Embrace vulnerability and reaching out for help
Who's Inside?
Women aged 29-39 from all over the world (we currently have 15+ countries!)
United by one thing: a desire to grow, connect, and do their thirties intentionally
Women who are going through huge personal shifts, planning big country moves, post break-up, big career shifts.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Still on the fence?
The question isn't whether you can figure this out on your own- of course you can. You are capable, resourceful, and strong.
The question is: do you want to spend another year feeling behind, questioning your worth, and navigating this chapter alone?
Imagine looking at your life and seeing not what's missing, but a beautiful creation that reflects your authentic self - one that a future partner would be lucky to join, not complete.
Your extraordinary life is waiting. Not after you meet someone. Not when you reach the next milestone. Right now.